Between Friends
What do you do when two close friends put you in the middle of there drama?
I have two very close friends and I care about them equally, however they have me in the middle of a their major communication issues/problems right now!!!
Who's side should I choose?
Background:
Friend A who's male has difficulty, like most men expressing feeling to friend B who's female; now friend B has tried to get friend A to open up, but he hasn't; as a result their friendship has drifted apart. Friend A wants to try to work on opening up, but has problems now because friend B has started to confiding thoughts and feeling with a neutral 3rd party. Who by the way may or may not be attracted to friend B.
My dilemma:
Do I give advice that may backfire and as a result leave everyone mad at me?
Do I say nothing and keep listening to both of them express their thoughts on the situation?
Do I tell each of them to stop venting to me since I feel stuck in the middle and don't want to choose side. ***(plus I can't -even if I wanted to-I understand both point of view) ***
Or lock them both in a room and let the duke it out (LOL)
SOMEONE WISER THAN ME PLEASE HELP!!!!
posted by metre @ 5:46 PM
3 Comments:
hey , just wanted to say hi. I haventdecided on setting up the other account yet, you seem like a cool person with similar interests. My email is dlguitar57@hotmail.com. Maybe we can talk thourh email for a minute. Later
Easy, if you are truly friends with both parties and they value your opinion give it. However, it must be with both parties present. Sometimes outside lookig in is the best view especially if you are impartial and fair. Hope this is not to late.
Good for people to know.
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